I don’t understand

My daughter is going through a rough patch right now and I have been very concerned about her for months I had finally gotten her and my grandsons (1&3) out here where she could finally get on her feet and not have to worry about babysitting and homelessness just working building her money up and getting on her feet.

But unbeknownst to me she was still dealing with her abusive ex-baby daddy who got her homeless in the first place tried to kill her 3 different times and is her drug dealer. So at the last minute after I got her (me and other family members) all set up with clothes baby items and was working on getting her a place to live she decided to send the kids back to Texas.

Then sprung on me she was going too but the thing is she has no where to live there plus she has evictions because of the tumultuous relationship with this ex so I told her it didn’t make any sense to live on the streets over there just to be near a guy who told you to your face he hates you. But now she has stopped talking to me.

I don’t take back anything that I said because he doesn’t mean her any good and I got all my information from her it’s crazy what drugs will make you do I just pray he doesn’t hurt her cause I will end up in prison frfr!!!

Please keep my daughter and grandsons in your thoughts and prayers cause they need to be protected back here in California asap

My birthday is coming up

I love it when my birthday is coming around. It’s my national holiday. My birthday is Monday, September 9th I love to celebrate it. It brings out the best side of me. It makes me so excited and giddy like a little girl. I love the celebration of it. We come together to love on each other and celebrate each other, realizing the miracle of another year that we’ve been blessed to have these last few years have been difficult because I’m with someone who doesn’t celebrate me but I’m done with that moving onto a better life. Life is too short to not live it the way you want to and enjoy it the best way you know how I am a traditionalist and I love the happiness of being happy and celebrating life the way that I enjoy celebrating it so Monday is my birthday and if you would like to celebrate it with me, you’re welcome to send me a gift $peaches1821 is my cashapp thank you so much

Happy birthday to me

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It means

What does freedom mean to you?

Being able to speak as I wish do as I please, and not feel guilty. It means being able to help others with without feeling as if I’ve done something wrong. It means being there for my friends and their time of need freedom is the basis of life, but freedom also means not being free For so many of people that I know it takes so much bondage to be free. You can’t say what you think. You can’t do what you feel. You can’t literally speak your mind. You have to bite your tongue a lot to keep your freedoms freedom to me means being free to say and do what it is that makes you feel the happiest the most enlightened, and the most joy out of life, I wish freedom was free because I would practice it so much more I wish freedom didn’t come at a cost because I would tell all of my friends and family to live free to live each day as if it were their lies because freedom has so many privileges that a lot of us aren’t able to Absorb one day we will all be free. How free are you?

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He is more than one

Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

The first man who impacted my life, was my dad. He was larger than life to me, but he left me early, but I still have fond memories of him, and I loved him the best the second man or male in my life. That was my favorite was my big brother Always called him Ben Junior, because he made me laugh. He was funny and energetic and a long distance runner. I always looked up to him. He left and went to the Navy when I was still a girl and I always had this admiration about him the next man would be, the man who was over me at my church, my Uncle Tyrone he was always hard on me but also loving to me him and one other man, Dr, Ruffin or brother Ruffin the man who caught me with the belt while I was running around chasing somebody around the church property But I remember them so finally, because they always kept up with me and made sure I stayed in my lane as being a little girl and in a little girls place the next my other brother William, he was always a stickler for right and wrong but he was also Fun to be around I took him with me to my grad night for high school and he showed me what a gentleman was like. The next one was my Godbrother Thomas he showed me what a husband should look like and what a protective brother should look like with the way he was with my sister Nettie And how he acted around her it let me know how a man is supposed to treat his wife, so I’ve had several men in my life who have played significant roles to have a real impression on me. Even the ones who didn’t have such good impressions they showed me what to look for to keep them away from me or ones like them. I have two examples of that, but I won’t name them. They didn’t earn that place down here.

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Yes I do they haven’t steered me wrong yet

Do you trust your instincts?

When someone is fake on the outside and people believe them end up, getting hurt, not me

I always believe in myself and my instincts I haven’t come across an impact that my instincts have told me not to trust where I have been wrong. I see things and people, and I know what their intentions are, and I listen closely and pay attention, and once I learn what they are about, I know how to act accordingly because when a person tells me who they are, I believe them from the very beginning if they tell me, they are a liar I believe them, and I don’t trust anything they say after that point, I look at them I see what they do. I listen to what they say how they talk the things they say about other people and everything and I know not to tell them anything or trust them with anything because they have proven and shown to me that they are a total liar. They are a total user, and they are literally limited person that should not be trusted to be a part of my life or it could be a job that says I will get benefits after a certain amount of time, but then they contradict themselves that says the job doesn’t come with benefits, I believe the latter once I know the truth about something I go with my first instant, because I know that no matter what a person will say the truth about them is the truth about them, and I won’t put myself in jeopardy by believing their lies, so I will give the minimal instead of trying to hurt myself by giving the most and not getting the most back, I will put my intentions into what is best for my future as best I can I have too many things going on to trust someone who can’t be trusted, so yes, I do follow my instincts always.

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A digital home designer

What alternative career paths have you considered or are interested in?

I would make a 3-D model of a home to certain specifications and then build it up to have all of the amenities in the house looking spectacular with the kitchen, bathroom, living room, dining room, music, room, home theater, the area by the pool with a separate entrance to that house connected to that pool area and a music room that has the padded doors so that when you’re in there practicing in the sound booth connected to the music room you can’t be heard Throughout the entire house, having a movie theater in the house as well as a room full of delicacies, whether it’s candy, treats, gourmet types of candies and food of that sort with a healthy balanceU each room that is the career that I will tackle and love doing.

I love baked goods and spaghetti

What food would you say is your specialty?

I always love making fresh baked cakes like poundcake or lemon and I really love making all kinds of fresh baked cookies from scratch. It’s so appealing to watch them bake and to teach my kids how to do it when they were little side bar I had an incident where my daughter was baking cookies and the cookies looked really beautiful, the only thing was she forgot to add sugar so if someone had tasted those cookies, it would have been something to think about. We went ahead and fixed it but they came out looking brown like they were chocolate cookies because they had already began to melt from in the oven when she realize she had it as sugar, it was a funny thing that happened, but they still turned out really good. The next thing next thing I love to cook is pasta dishes either macaroni and cheese from scratch or spaghetti. Spaghetti is my all-time favorite meal, so I always love putting that extra love into it because it comes out so wonderful tasting. I don’t make it often because all of those noodles are not good on your stomach, as far as pounds go anyway, I have tried different recipes and they still come out tasting really wonderful.

I have learned healthier ways to cook, but when it comes to my spaghetti, it is the complete fat meal always

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My mom is the first person that comes to mind.

When you think of the word “successful,” who’s the first person that comes to mind and why?

This is my mom my Beautiful success story she has the most beautiful smile

Since I was a little girl I have always looked at my mom as a success story to me because I have always seen her persevere through everything. I watched her make enormous life decisions get disappointing it and still land on her feet even after my dad passed she went to work she was able to get new cars keep up the house that we were living in maintain her sanity and travel with us to different places in the country in order to keep us involved with family and friends she even moved us across country because of the possibility of building a brand new life even though that ended up being somewhat of a pipe dream that was not reality she still landed on her feet again she has always been a devoted church member a consistent employee for whatever business even a human dictionary a real inspiration to be around. Able to pick up new material fast always showing that she is an asset to whatever she is doing not to mention her phenomenal ability to play piano that I for one have picked up a bit here and there. She has always looked super human to me you never realize someone is getting older until you’ve been away from them for a while. She is still as beautiful as ever though she is still able to live on her own do things on her own maintain her ability to think Moe speak and talk to me often she is simply awesome. Not bad for someone in their 70s she’s beautiful super smart and still capable of being helpful and cherished as I do as much as possible she is the greatest success story that I can think of. She’s giving strong loving considerate always compassionate always had a great work ethic just a all-around great person so she would be the one who I would say it’s not just my hero but is my favorite one to say is my success story. My mom Mary F,T, Green

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