It’s my birthday let’s talk

What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

The personality traits that raised red flags with me out of other people are when they are incapable of having a conversation. They just talk and talk and talk and never listen to what the other person has to say to me that’s a red flag because they don’t take the time to get to know the other person they just go off on a tangent and never have any kind of real conversation. It shows me that the person is selfish and very self-centered, and it starts off the relationship in a bad light

Today is my birthday. I turned 50 years old. I celebrated my birthday by going to eat with my mom. I had a very nice meal and enjoyed her company as well. I always loved my birthday because it’s my national holiday. there were times when I was celebrating my birthday all month long because one day just wasn’t enough. My birthday is a very special time to me and I’m glad I was able to celebrate it with my mom now I have to make preparations for the next few days in order to keep the celebration happy and going today was a good day. Happy birthday to me.

Happy 50th birthday to me

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My birthday is coming up

I love it when my birthday is coming around. It’s my national holiday. My birthday is Monday, September 9th I love to celebrate it. It brings out the best side of me. It makes me so excited and giddy like a little girl. I love the celebration of it. We come together to love on each other and celebrate each other, realizing the miracle of another year that we’ve been blessed to have these last few years have been difficult because I’m with someone who doesn’t celebrate me but I’m done with that moving onto a better life. Life is too short to not live it the way you want to and enjoy it the best way you know how I am a traditionalist and I love the happiness of being happy and celebrating life the way that I enjoy celebrating it so Monday is my birthday and if you would like to celebrate it with me, you’re welcome to send me a gift $peaches1821 is my cashapp thank you so much

Happy birthday to me

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They haven’t I still believe Wright is right and wrong is wrong

How have your political views changed over time?

I’ve never been one to mindlessly vote for either party. If there was something I agreed with I would vote for the one who came closest to my viewpoint. If I didn’t agree with either party, I would go with the third party. That was the closest to what I agreed with Until I realized going with the third-party was still basically voting for either Democratic or Republican because if a candidate is not on a ballot, they really don’t have a chance of making it into office so I begin to really do research on which candidate step for what I actually believe in, and how much power each candidate had no matter what office they held and I began to see it didn’t matter whether they were Republican or democrat or green party or freelance if they stay or something that I believe in I would have to go with the one that was closest per se like right now I may not like or agree with everything that Biden is Standing for right now, but I’m not against everything. He’s standing wars as well. My moral side would not allow me to vote for Trump. No matter what he still More because any person that is not for me is by the fault against me, but that doesn’t mean that I would go and vote for DeSantis either, because anyone that doesn’t want my history to be taught cannot be someone over me either. I don’t think anyone is perfect. They all have faults but I’m going to look at the one who is closest to my view and I believe our children should be in the forefront of all of that, so I don’t know who has my vote at this point but I do know I will make an informed decision anyway it’s three days till New Year’s. Happy birthday to my second oldest nephew Justin today I hope life did you good today and I love you.

This year will be a year of great things new beginnings and happy times, and a whole Lotta travel is good

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Not being there to make a difference

What are you most worried about for the future?

I have always wanted to be remembered as someone who helped and made a difference in my families life that I have memories to cherish with my kids, grandkids and great grands along with my brothers and sisters that I was a generous person and I built a legacy that would help not only children grow into productive human beings, but also would build well for generations to come so that my family would have a family business that was surrounded by mental health, togetherness the village concept of raising children, and the connectedness of having one generation after another know each other, and be together. This is not what I see in my family society, and the world at large, my fear is that we will become a technological society and forget what it feels like to have that connection with each other to where we understand how each other thinks how each other is dependent on one another and able to function in this world so that you understand subliminal messages you understand the simple things I decide I you understand when you’re talking too much you understand when you go out to eat, you don’t act a monkey These things are important attributes of human life and it is so important for me to be able to be there to show my grandchildren and great grands how to be great human beings. These are my fears of the future because so much time has been lost, and it seems this new thought of being a working person has taken the place of being a family unit People don’t understand how important family is and what family brings you that kind of stability. Love care, unconditional love, especially when it’s your own child so this is my goal is for the future because no matter what happens in my life I know in my heart, that I will always have the love of my brothers and sisters, my nieces and nephews, because at the end of the day, we literally grew up together and I wouldn’t ever abandon them for any reason or my children no matter what they do, even if they’re hardhead as hell I still with it because I was taught better. Thank God for a mother, who prayed and still does.

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It’s not exactly mine, but

Write about your most epic baking or cooking fail.

I love to cook one of my favorite things to make at holiday time is macaroni and cheese made from scratch. I made some macaroni and cheese for my husband to show him that I knew how to make it and instead of him, just eating it before the festivities start it Around Thanksgiving he decided he was going to turn my masterpiece into one of his resounding concoctions and add it get this some marshmallows to my macaroni and cheese. I was disgusted by it and did not eat any of it. It did not turn out right it reminded me of a kid who is trying to do a experimental product in the kitchen like making, a peanut butter and pickle sandwich or a honey and mustard, peanut butter and jelly sandwich. It did not turn out well at all. After that point, I decided I would not cook for him ever again he complained and complained that I was not doing my womanly duty for him after that, I didn’t care because I felt as if he did not appreciate the things that I was doing for him And my kids were grown and gone and I did not have a reason to be slaving in the kitchen for anyone when I could just eat out or throw something quick together but I now have started trying to get back in the habit of doing cooking for a better purpose not Jess Because I want to eat anyway that is my experience with cooking for a better purpose and my purpose for cooking. That was an epic fail.

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Follow my first mind

Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

When I was younger, I prayed about everything, and I always knew what to do which way to go what was right and if the choice I was getting ready to make was going to add to my life or subtract from it and I would always follow my first mind And that choice always turned out to be the right one no matter if it was something as simple as driving down the street and turning right instead of left doing that always got me to the right point at the right time in the right journey. When I started hearing, my first mind tell me you know this isn’t what you should do and instead of shutting it down immediately starting to question that and justify the choice that I was making instead of shutting it down everything after that point started going the wrong way and every choice after that did not go right until I apologized for not listening to that first choice and cut everything down that did not coincide with what happened that I did not listen to after that choice. It was so distinct that I knew down to a T when things were turned around and the point when they were turned around, so now I know that that statement is so true you do better (you will do better when you knew better) and I haven’t went back to the former since that point and things have slowed in the right direction since then this is why I have always believed prayer changes things.

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Soulfood, Mexican food, Thai food, Italian food, Seafood

What are your favorite types of foods?

I like soul food, because I like the way we put an immense amount of flavor and the way we cook our food as Black people from around the world. I enjoy Hispanic tradition of food. Whether is Americanized or farming, Mexican countries because it has different flavors and it is Different in the way they put their ingredients with it their history and their family secrets in it. I love Thai food because of the way they put fruit to enhance the flavor in their food to make it taste flavorful and have a spice element with a sweetness to it also And I love Italian food because of the authenticity in it with the way they do their noodles, their spaghetti‘s, and most of their pastas whether it’s from scratch or processed it always has a genuine flavor that you can’t only say it came from an Italian restaurant or an Italian country There are several foods that I like, but these are by far my favorites.

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Exploring a New World

What are you doing this evening?

I have been on a virtual roller coaster because the meta-verse is so new to me and it’s so awesome that I find myself immersed in so many different aspects of it and so excited by all the things that I’m finding and seeing and being involved in that it is so much fun That the New World and sceneries in places that I am going to I can’t seem to get enough of it. It is mine blowing so when I am done with my chores for the day and my writing, and my immense decision, making about life and all that is going on I go into a whole New World to see and meet new people and explore what it is that is out there that I didn’t know about and I am really enjoying it so far. I can travel I can vacation I can earn, and I can meet and greet all wow in the comfort of my own home. I absolutely enjoy every aspect of it. It is a world in itself. Not to mention, I can cook and learn new cultures and languages and ways to work. It is amazing. Plus the like-minded people. I am having a blast. Still looking for my friends though.

I meditate and listen to music

How do you relax?

I’ve never seen and listen to music because it keeps my mind clear and it helps me to focus on myself and feel better about whatever it is that I was going through. I’m focus on my inner self and then when I get up I eat something and do something creative, which make sure that my body is one with the cell on my love y’all so much better

To is my Birthday 09/09

I love my birthday every year it is my day to reflect on all the things I have accomplished over the last year. Over the ones I miss and over the ones I’ve lost most importantly the present that I’m living in and will continue to conquer in the now and what is to come I am blessed to be 48 years young and will continue to live my best life no matter what comes my way the best is yet to come today is the first day of the rest of my life. I have reached 500 views 5000,000,000 more to go I’m on track. I am on my way to losing 80 pounds without fail.

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