How do you relax?
I’ve never seen and listen to music because it keeps my mind clear and it helps me to focus on myself and feel better about whatever it is that I was going through. I’m focus on my inner self and then when I get up I eat something and do something creative, which make sure that my body is one with the cell on my love y’all so much better
I love my birthday every year it is my day to reflect on all the things I have accomplished over the last year. Over the ones I miss and over the ones I’ve lost most importantly the present that I’m living in and will continue to conquer in the now and what is to come I am blessed to be 48 years young and will continue to live my best life no matter what comes my way the best is yet to come today is the first day of the rest of my life. I have reached 500 views 5000,000,000 more to go I’m on track. I am on my way to losing 80 pounds without fail.
What does your ideal home look like?
The first room has large pictures of family history going back to grandparents and great grandparents lots of memorabilia with memories of adventures and get together’s of family, vacations and time spent learning about our history and things that we learned traits that we got from our elders it has Things that were passed down from our family members that was important to them that they wanted us to have so that they can be remembered and have a stake in our future. It has music, rooms and dining room with a record player that actually still plays records it has a long dining room table for Gas to come over and eat and sit down and talk to us about growing up With our parents and cousins and friends, it has TVs and DVD players, CDs and tape cassettes with our family members voices on it from times they were telling stories and let us sit around and talk about things that were important to us even when they didn’t want to hear it, and they would save us it has our school awards and our memory verses our time capsules that we would bury, and years later, the grandkids dug up that we put inside the mantle so that they could see it and remember the fun things we used to do when playing outside, making mud pies it has our bedrooms that has changed over the years to show how our growth and development has sprung up into new adventures to wear now when the grandkids come over and great grands, they see how their stuff has been added to the room so that they know it is their place also it has been modernize with still a playground in the backyard they have a game room, TV room, work room, and a indoor garden so that they can play with it and they can tell their kids how they used to play on those very swings and they’ve been kept up so that when they got old enough they can play with them too it has books on the shelves and different little trinkets that has been there for years that has shown them how they have come from a long line of thinkers and entrepreneurs, who always grow with the times, and how they are expected to do the same, even if they go their own way, they are still expected to achieve in one way or another it has beautiful furniture clean walls and really nice carpet in certain areas and work floors and others. Everybody has a space where they know what to do when they come in the door and how to cook all the utensils are put in a neat and orderly fashion, and it’s always fun around their house because they know that at grandmom’s house they are always welcome so in my house it is always home.
What brings a tear of joy to your eye?
When my grandchild was born, and I found out that he was healthy and safe that made me the happiest brought tears of joy to my eyes knowing that my daughter was OK and my grandbaby was here and one piece I felt good I felt happy I felt like the world was right.
Why do you blog?
I blog because I have something to say and many others can’t say how they really feel out of fear of cancel culture and social media as well as shame.
I speak for black and brown people who are always on the low end of things and don’t know how to catch a break. To let them know someone knows what they’re going through and can relate
While also expressing my own life’s journey triumphs and trials, while going through it to let people know you can make it through and how fun it is to make it through.
What’s your favorite time of day?
When I’m in my room and I’m able to think about the things I accomplished during the day and I’m able to meditate and bring peace before I go to sleep and think about what my day brought, and how I made it through all of it and then to see what is to come And begin to manifest what is next for the future? It brings me a calm and makes me smile every time before I lay down, take my deep breath and breathe in all the gratitude that I feel for having made it through one more day, knowing that what a have just manifest it is already on the way And I feel happy and grateful right before I go to sleep.
How would you design the city of the future?
My city of the future, what reside with men who want sons and daughters to grow up and be respectable, loving, caring, supportive, and intelligent, who believe in family and community it would have women who believe in the growth and development of strong minds great atmospheres and technology of the future it would also have schools that employ scientists history buffs a strong black community stores that accentuate health and healthy living also cooking classes with trades to help kids who don’t have a desire to go to college develop skills to develop into things that will help our city stay revolving. My city of the future would also have recycling that pays and replenishes needed accessories in our city. It would have virtual reality, community centers, hospitals of the future, with the best technology and doctors in it. Fitness centers, churches, and activity centers. It would be an all inclusive, helpful, hopeful, and pleasant place to be.
This has to stop all of this is inappropriate and is not OK we are a complete society Who have gone almost completely insane with this overboard trying to be overly right there is a point where you either stand on enough is enough or you stand on too much wrong is just wrong. I know you always say the Bible says to love but the Bible also says follow the basic instructions before leaving Earth and nowhere in there does it say keep doing wrong and you’ll be forgiven, nowhere does it say that, the most important thing that it teaches is somewhere in there you have to start attempting to do right or you’re just doing it in vain you can’t keep doing wrong and expect that the forgiveness that you’re asking for is a genuine thing or that the life you’re living is the right one to be living even if you’re just being a good person, right is right and wrong is wrong, stop living in this delusion that love is love, because God‘s love is the real love and if you don’t know what that is then you are not following it you need to read and understand and find out but that’s neither here nor there. I’m not preaching and I’m definitely not always right but I am on the right path about this they need to stop bullying everyone when they don’t say the right thing that they want to hear! I do not and will not stand by and be told that IAM something other than a genuinely born woman to please someone who is a man trying to say he’s a woman when DNA proves otherwise! I don’t have a Adams apple I don’t have a XY chromosome I have a XX chromosome fallopian tubes and eggs IAM a woman. @cnn, @blm @fox13news @blackwomen @corelle942 @lgbtq @Celebrity news. @LATimes
The LGBTQ and their allies which are the to far left (I am a democrat but not that kind) has stolen so much of societies freedoms taken away our freedom of SPEECH our young innocents and our ability to speak on things that we hold dear in this society I was watching (listening to) an interview today with one of my favorite singers (Ne-yo) and he spoke the truth but got backlash by the ABC community and ended up having to create this lavished apology for just speaking his truth matter of fact the truth and that is inappropriate. No one should have that kind of power over the words and feelings and or thoughts of someone else’s truth, they do not run this world. We live in a diverse society and we do not have to bow down to know one percent portion of it just because their feelings get hurt.
What’s your favorite game (card, board, video, etc.)? Why?
The first one is temple run two, the second one is Township, the third one is spades. The reason I like these three games are they make me think they keep my mind entertained and they help me to learn new things and I have to be really good and focus on playing them And engaging with other people in order to get the things I need to accomplish certain goals in my games which makes it even more fun. I don’t play them all the time but when I do, it becomes a crazy addiction and I can’t stop playing them and what are your games that you enjoy playing? One other game I forgot to mention is bop it that game is also so much fun.
What foods would you like to make?
I love foods that have a different kind of taste that are good for the body and gratifying to the soul. These foods keep me grounded and help me to stay on track, energized and moving forward. I love to cook and try new things try different types of seasonings and vegetables in my food this is because I was taught to enjoy my food not just gobble it down
The struggle is now not forever 